There are many ways to choose the right crystals for you. You can use your intuition, read metaphysical healing properties or match crystals to chakras.
One of my favourite methods is to let a crystal cool off (maybe for a day or two) and then ask yourself questions, which are fascinating aspects of ritual magic.
1. Intuition
Intuition is our ability to feel a deep connection with the energy of a crystal. This connection is often a sense of a calling, or something that just feels right inside our souls. If a crystal calls to us it is often because it has healing properties that are aligned with our needs. This may be physical, emotional or spiritual healing.
Ultimately, it is up to you to trust your intuition and follow the guidance of your spirit guides and the universe to find which crystal works best for you. However, there are some simple things you can try to help guide your intuition and connection.
Start by making a list of the crystal healing properties you need or would like to experience. This can include anything from balancing your chakras to healing broken hearts. Then, take some time to go through your collection of crystals and see which ones resonate with you. Pay attention to any physical feelings you have when holding a particular crystal. These could be sensations of tingling, warmth or coldness, vibrations in your hands and body or a feeling that it is heavy or light.
If a crystal speaks to you and you feel a strong connection with it, this is the crystal that you should select. This is the one that will work best for you and your needs at this time.
Intuition thrives on complicated problems (like balancing your checkbook) and does better than our calculations at the simpler tasks (like what to wear tomorrow). So if you are struggling to choose between two crystals, don’t be afraid to trust your intuition.
The other benefit of choosing a crystal by intuition is that it can be easier to tell when you’ve made the right choice. This is because our intuition is usually a lot less biased than our rational thinking. It is also much quicker and more accurate, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. This makes intuitive decision making a great tool for big decisions in love. It can save you a lot of time and stress in the long run.
2. Chakras
Chakras are spinning wheels of energy in the body that, when unbalanced, can cause physical and emotional suffering. The 7 main chakras run alongside the spine and are associated with a range of emotions, organs, and physical functions. They are also believed to have specific colors associated with them which can be used for meditation and balancing purposes.
Sacral Chakra or Svadhishthana: orange and located below the navel by your sacrum, this chakra is all about emotions and relationships. It is also about personal power and new experiences. If you are someone who struggles with low self-esteem or needy tendencies, this chakra may be off balance.
Solar Plexus Chakra or Manipura: yellow and found about two centimeters above your belly button, this chakra is all about happiness, energy and personal empowerment. If your Solar Plexus is open and healthy, you will feel confident in yourself and your abilities to achieve what you want from life. You will be able to see the beauty and goodness in others and have healthy, mutually supportive relationships.
Heart Chakra or Anahata: green and located in the center of your chest, this is all about love, compassion, trust and security. If your heart is open and balanced, you will be able to give and receive unconditional love, easily form and maintain loving relationships and have good self-esteem.
Throat Chakra or Vishuddha: blue and located in the throat, this is all about communication and speaking your truth. It’s about being able to express yourself freely, with empathy and without judgment. If your throat chakra is balanced, you will be able to hear and understand what other people are saying as well.
Crown Chakra or Sahasrara: Indigo/Blue and located at the top of your head, this is a very complex and difficult one to describe. It is about being connected to a higher consciousness and pure unconditional love, so it’s really hard to put into words. If your crown chakra is out of balance, you might struggle with self-esteem issues and lack of clarity in life or feel disconnected from your spirituality.
3. Research
Crystals have captured the human imagination for centuries. They have been used as amulets of protection, religious items, tools, in meditation and even medicinally. Today, crystals can be found in all sorts of places from crystal shops to home decor stores. They also capture the interest of individuals who are curious about energy healing. For those who are new to the crystal world, it can be difficult to know where to start or what to do with a particular crystal.
One way to determine if a crystal wants to work with you is to experiment. Hold each stone in your hand and tune into its energy. Pay attention to what emotional and physical feelings you get as well as what the crystal does for you. If you feel a strong connection to a crystal, this is a good indication that it can help you with whatever you need in your life at this time.
Another way to choose a crystal is to research its specific healing properties. Many of the healing crystals have specific healing powers that can address a wide range of issues from mental health to physical wellbeing. For example, amethyst is known to soothe pain and promote sleep, rose quartz enhances feelings of love and inner peace and clear quartz amplifies spiritual energy.
You can use the internet to research crystals and their healing properties or check out books that can provide you with detailed information about each stone. This is especially helpful if you are looking to address a specific issue. Once you have researched the crystals, see what resonates with you and which ones are most applicable to your current situation.
You can also seek out the guidance of a crystal healer who has an in-depth understanding of how each crystal works and can use their knowledge to find you the right healing stones. Or, you can take our Healing Crystal Quiz, which uses your responses to identify the crystal that is a perfect match for you. No matter which method you select, there is no doubt that you will be able to find the crystal that is a perfect fit for your emotional, mental, and physical needs.
4. Physical Feelings
When you hold a crystal, pay attention to how it feels. Some crystals feel cool or warm to the touch, while others may have a tingling sensation. If you feel a connection to the crystal, this is an indication that it’s working with your energy and can provide healing.
You may also experience a physical reaction when you find the right crystal, such as a smile that just won’t go away or a feeling of pure joy. These are all good signs that the crystal is calling out to you and is a perfect fit for you.
Once you’ve done a bit of research and found some crystals that are a good match, take the time to really look at each one and notice what stands out to you about it. This is a great time to take a break from tech and just focus on the beauty of each crystal, allowing your intuition to guide you. You might even want to use a pendulum or intuition cards for help.
Another way to find the right crystal is to simply browse and shop around at different crystal shops and gem shows. Allow yourself to just walk around and see what catches your eye. It might be a specific color, shape or texture that draws you in or maybe a crystal just keeps popping into your head at random times. If you keep coming back to a particular crystal, this is definitely a sign that it’s a match for you.
After you’ve found a crystal or two that feel like a fit for you, consider keeping them in a place that’s special to you, such as your home or office. You can also wear them as jewelry or carry them with you throughout the day to feel their energy and healing properties.
If you’re looking for a quick and easy way to find the perfect crystal for you, try taking our short Healing Crystal Quiz! Our quiz uses questions about your spirituality, meditation, and energy to deliver a list of crystal recommendations based on your needs.